Following are some testimonials from workshops and private sessions, used by permission. Given the sensitive nature of this work, in some cases the client’s name has been changed for privacy reasons.
“You are a wealth of information and I really appreciate it. Thanks again for helping me in my safe, erotic journey. “
- Bill, Software Engineer
“Mark creates a space that is safe, welcoming and respectful. I found the experience (my first in this group) to be both relaxing and more meaningful than I was anticipating.”
- John, Boston MA
“I appreciated the guidance making the experience safe.”
- Bob, age 56
“I just wanted to thank you again for your kindness, gentleness, and all around caring. It meant a lot and … I feel lighter if that makes sense. I don’t even know how to express the peace I found in sharing that time with you.”
- David
“The last session I had with you was beautiful in the amount of intuitive, brotherly caring you exhibited. I don’t know that I ever felt safer with another person while discharging that amount of energy.”
- Jim
“A truly remarkable experience! This was my first time as any type of session like this and I was somewhat anxious at the beginning. I felt welcome and very comfortable. I look forward to future sessions.”
- Ken, Duxbury, MA
“A nonjudgmental, safe and comfortable environment for lots of men to connect with a specific purpose.”
- Tim
“Thank you greatly. This is the type of group and knowledge I have been looking for – for years!”
- Brian
“I liked the chance to touch another man in a sensual but safe environment and the importance of honest communication in those actions, and the chance to break down some barriers, both mine and my partners. It is a very safe environment, and communication is key. There is nothing to fear, and everything to gain.”
- Bill
“The workshop helped me to trust others again. It’s difficult for people recovering from a traumatic experience to trust others, especially to let them touch you. It’s not something you should rush into but at some point you need to learn to trust again in a safe and supportive situation like Mark’s workshop. If you never take that chance you’ll never know if you can learn to trust again. I’m so glad I took that chance.”
- Greg, Brookline, MA 42 years old
“Very impressed. Had no idea what to expect and entered with a fair degree of nervousness. The pace and flow of the session were well designed and quickly eased my anxiety and I felt completely safe.”
- Richard, Everett, MA
“Mark,- thanks for a great workshop. I felt very comfortable and safe – practicing giving and receiving was great. You are a great facilitator. I am looking forward to more meetup sessions.”
- Bruce
“Thanks again for organizing these events, as I’ve made a couple of dear friends through them. As a man who doesn’t go to bars or clubs, it’s a delightful way to meet other like-minded gents.”
- Ryan
“I found it very relaxing and comforting. Everyone was able to be at their own comfort level.”
– Bob, Burlington MA
“My advice to anyone unsure about something like this would be to try it, but I guarantee you won’t walk out regretting anything. This being my first time in such a place with other men, I was naturally nervous not knowing what to expect. But Mark and others I had contact with made me feel very welcome and comfortable. I will definitely go back!!”
- Derek, Braintree, MA
“It was the first Male Healthy Touch Club meetup I was able to attend. And I was glad I did! I liked the way that you gradually led us through exercises, first with all clothes on and then moving to optional clothes off. I found it liberating to be with the group of other mostly-nude men going through the exercises together. In sum, I really enjoyed it.”
- Robb, West Newton, MA) said
“The best part was that it was easy to join in and participate. Very safe feeling. It was a time of practice and confidence building for me.”
- Paul, age 45 from Toronto, Ontario
“Mark, you’re like the swiss army knife of coaches. You helped me with a wide range of topics—from motivation of work tasks and commitments, to very personal sexual stuff. You also put me onto a great resource that has been hugely beneficial for me to keep my day-to-day focus.”
– Bill, marketing professional, Boston MA
“If someone is uncertain about attending a future event, I would mention that the warm up exercises help to put you at ease if you are little nervous.”
- Albert, Boston, MA; Artist, 54
“The workshop and the general interaction with other participants quickly overcame the concerns that I might not fit in… It opened up, or rather helped pry open a little wider, dimensions of my sexuality that I hadn’t had the opportunity or will to explore to the extent I would like.”
- Ron, Los Angeles CA
“The judgment-free zone and comfort level among the men was the best part of the event. At first, the atmosphere may seem tense or off-putting, but once you allow yourself to “let go,” you’ll feel at ease immediately.”
- Chris, Providence, RI, Account Executive
“Mark … listened intently to my words and to my body as he guided me to a point of total relaxation… I felt uninhibited, witnessed and loved. Toward the end of the session I reached a spiritual, emotional and physical place that left me calm and keenly aware of myself and the world around me. The effects lasted for many days, even through the stress of work and everyday life.”
– Andrew, Landscape Architect, Boston, MA
“Mark, I love what you are doing for men to open up a new world for them….men have kept themselves way too distant from each other culturally for too long and it’s time for that to change.”
- Joe, Tyngsboro, MA
“Wish you were closer to Chicago or least in the Midwest.”
- John, Chicago IL
“Thanks so much for this article. Your message motivates me to try harder—what have I got to lose except a lot of emotional chaos and pain, right? Thanks again for sharing your inspiring story.”
- Dave, Cambridge, MA